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Ten years ago, I visited a friend's home. Her family had about nine girls, each older than the next by just a year. The family was not well-to-do, and I began to question their decision to have so many children in this challenging Nigerian economy. It was not until last year, when they were finally blessed with a male child, that I understood everything. Gender dictation is one of the many problems some couples face, and this is because childbirth is ultimately a genetic lottery. The Genetic Lottery Childbirth is a genetic lottery where females carry two X chromosomes (XX) . Therefore, every egg a woman produces carries only an X chromosome. The deciding factor, however, lies with the male, who carries both an X and a Y chromosome (XY) . A man's sperm is the only variable in determining biological sex; it either carries an X ( resulting in a girl ) or a Y ( resulting in a boy ). Biologically, a woman is a passive participant in gender determination. If a couple has ...

My roommate back in school was a very slim girl, but I believe she didn't like how lean her arms, hips, and chest were. Later this year, I ran into her on a commercial bus on one or two occasions. I could barely recognize her because she looked completely different. Her hips were curvier, her chest and bust were full, her arms and legs had more flesh, and she had even grown a bigger butt. It was obvious she had taken something to gain weight. We’ve been told that managing our weight is a simple game of math and vanity—a struggle measured strictly by the notches on our belts and the unforgiving numbers on a bathroom scale. But focusing entirely on how our clothes fit misses a critical, silent reality: our bodies don’t just care about how much weight we gain, they care about exactly where that weight goes. From naturally slim individuals taking unregulated pills to rapidly force a curvier silhouette, to anyone watching their midsection expand, hidden internal changes can ...

Content Warning: This section contains discussions of sexual assault and trauma. My neighbor has been married for 10 years, and they recently got a divorce. The reason given was that his wife cheated on him. At first, I felt deep sympathy for the man, knowing how heartbroken and betrayed he must feel. That was until I heard the other side of the story from his wife. She had been neglected and cheated on by him many times throughout their marriage, and finally, she decided to cheat back. It’s ironic how some people believe she should have remained faithful and prayed for her husband to change, while others believe she did the right thing because her husband had a toxic habit. Harsh judgment is almost always passed on a woman when she cheats or has a high " body count ," but rarely on a man. When a woman chooses to cheat back, she is intentionally reclaiming her sexuality, taking it out of his exclusive possession and putting it back on the market. For the husband, ...

  Disclaimer: I am a blogger, not a doctor! The information in this post is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare professional for any medical concerns. Last week, I was having a chat with my cousin. He was telling me about one of my aunts who was neither married nor had any kids. He claimed she developed fibroids because she had never gotten pregnant before. But the truth is, fibroids occur in both mothers and non-mothers alike. Before we dive deeper into this article, I must clear up a common mix-up between two completely different medical terms: fibrosis (general organ scarring) and uterine fibroids (benign growths in the womb) . Fibrosis : This is general tissue scarring caused by injury or chronic inflammation (like liver cirrhosis or lung scarring). Not giving birth has absolutely nothing to do with this. Uterine Fibroids (Leiomyomas): These are non-cancerous, rubbery tumors mad...

It’s a Saturday morning. You just woke up, and you neatly make your bed, tucking in the bedsheets and straightening the pillows. You take out a broom, you begin sweeping your room, then move on to the living room—tidying up and sweeping the entire space. Next, you head to the kitchen, sorting through the dishes, tossing last night's leftovers into the trash, and stacking the plates in the sink. Once the dishes are washed and the kitchen is clean, only one task remains: mopping the whole house. But you would rather eat breakfast first. As you take some ingredients out of the fridge to whip up a nice meal, a voice in your head hits you with a brilliant idea: You should sell your lifestyle and hobbies! In today's world, everyday activities like cooking, painting, and cleaning have transformed into profitable digital side-hustles. As a result, the percentage of people relying solely on traditional 9-to-5 jobs decreases every day. Creators are leveraging their passions t...